Relationships
| By : PRIYA ASHU TALWAR | Previous | Next |
| Posted on : 08 Dec, 2005 | Total Views : 378 |
Things are not the same always , and yours life and life-story is differnt from mine and rest all
Relationships are like clay ,it is how you mould it , ... there r "N" different types of shape , in which clay can be turned ....
so one thing which i feel is important for the relationship to move on in a constructive manner is ,do not limit the scope of your imagination
like clay cam be moulded into differnt shapes , relationship has various different aspects open your eyes and more importantly your mind to
unlimit the scope of your imagination
never define your relationships or set limits to it , you never know a friend relation ship may turn to soulmate ,
a brother -brother relation may end up that they seem to be the whole world
a mother -child may turn that they are the only true friends in the whole world
It is easy to get into a relationship infact very very easy ,
but more than difficult to maintain it , and this holds good for anything , it is difficult to maintain so always try to groom ur relationship ,
handle it like a baby ,look at an aspect of improving it always and all the time , there is always a scope of improvement
like if you teach ur child for 2 years of his age and then stop ur teachings or grooming the child will loose the track in only 3 months and that is the end
this certainly hold gud to relationships , u try to spend too much during the early yearns and gradually take it for granted , and the reltionship looses the charm , it looses its meaning , so with time groom ur relationship do not leave it as it is
The other most imortant thing in sustaing a healthy relationship is give space .. A VERY IMPORTANT ASPECT ur friend , brother , sister mother or anyone with whom u have a relationship has his or her own identity try to let him/her live with it , donot overpower his privacy or identity , u can certianly help him improving it , but with time and patience
all of a sudden one mornig do not expect he/she will change the habbit of snoring ( an example!!!!!)certain things leave to time and handle with intense care and soothing touch , certain issues in life are never to be touched always , look for a way , plan a situation and then only you can ovecome them , do not expect the person will or should cahnge because you donot like it , he has his own identity , his own space , his own nature try to respect it , and try to appreciate it , do not always find problems with that particular habbit , try to adjust ur body to sleep with the snouring sound!!!
The next important aspect live ur relationship to full is to compilement , always and always try to compliment , let it be if you say " you have beautiful writing" anything means anything make it a habbit to compilment , even it is ur maid compilment her ( did u remember the last time u complimnet your maid for coming early , !!!, but certainly u do remember when u scollded her , when u cribbled , if she did not turn up ) , do not laugh , u certainly hold the relationship with even ur maid , !!!!!!( do not wild ur thoughts!!!1)
I may time to time udate this , but now this thing come to my mind !!!!!
Written By : PRIYA ASHU TALWAR
