Rising Extra Marital Affairs In India: Not A Good Sign For Tomorrow.
Vatsayayana of India gifted the most elaborative and the finest “Art of Making Love” in the form of Kama sutra to the world. Principles of this book are globally accepted. This substantive book laid the purpose of marriage. According to it, marriage is the way of sharing life with someone forever and further it states that marriage is the building block of the society and hence produces the world of human beings.
When the basic purpose of marriage is violated, it leads to extra marital affairs, when both or any of the spouses are not able to get basic needs satiated they look forward to other person to pacify their unfulfilled desire. India is not an exception to it.
In urban areas extra marital affairs are more prominent as compare to rural areas as in villages people are more contented with what they have, unlike in urban areas. Studies show that these relations are taking places due to lack of time spending with each other because of busy schedules of their work and the second major reason behind is the Sex Problems or not getting satisfied with the spouse. Other few reasons are lack of emotional closeness, lack of interest in each other, lack of communication, passion has died down, or it has never existed, lack of commitment to each other, lack of understanding, over possessiveness, loneliness and boredom.
In India these affairs are commonly under the cover unlike in western country as in India there is low tolerance level towards the extra marital affairs and considered as anti social.
Spouses will have to learn to be happy with one another and if there is any problem persists between them, it has to be shared immediately and worked upon so that their married life should not suffer due to the tendency to conceal.
So if you face any problem with your sex life it is both of yours responsibility to get it resolved at the earliest, if the problem is related to sexual disorders never hesitate to take medical help because your kids, parents and whole of your family remains happy when both of you stay loyal and happy with each other.